Phone Sex Tips for Long-Distance Loving in Lockdown

The Covid-19 pandemic has found a lot of couples in lockdown but separate and it’s not easy! But we know that couples are getting experimental and it’s bringing out their sexy side. Not everybody is used to finding intimacy when separate so we thought we’d offer some help! Here are some phone sex tips for long-distance loving in lockdowns.

Relax and let go

Anything you deliver with a lack of confidence is not going to land where you want it to so it’s important to really relax, get comfortable and lean into it. That might mean that the first few sexts or phone calls remain pretty basic and easy-going before you get more comfortable and more confident. Rome wasn’t built in a day! Making sure you’re both ready to give phone sex a go is super important!

Timing

Get to know each other’s schedule when you’re apart. There’s no point getting all hot and bothered and sending a message that won’t be returned because your partner is busy. It’s also no fun for anyone to receive that kind of message when they’re stuck on a work call or trying to get something done! Make time for each other just as you would have done in person.

It’s all in the Build up

Diving straight into the smut might not work for everyone! Just like in real life and physically, sometimes half the fun is in the build up. For a good sexting or phone sex session, go slow, work each other up and then release!

Play with Words

If you just stick to biological facts, it’s not going to turn anyone on. Good sexts are creative and naughty so don’t hold back. Release your literary prowess and use all the words you know! Whether it’s all the metaphors for working up your partner or you want to straight talk, it takes time to get into the groove so be playful and exploratory.

Of course, toys make it all the more exciting! We highly recommend helping each other choose some toys to play with during lockdown – and it’s really fun edging with each other and telling each other what they can do, when and where!